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点点「在看」，无论内向外向，多点自我尊重～
【今日测试】
我们想告诉你的是：内外向性格，才不是“爱不爱和人说话”那么简单哦。
或许你也曾不断问自己“我的性格是内向还是外向？” ，亦或者“外向者明明更受欢迎，为什么我偏偏是内向的？”诚然，我们能感受到内向的人背负着许多外界压力。但是我们相信，重新理解自己的内向型性格，好好利用内向者的优势，每一个内向者都能绽放属于自己的光芒。
今天为大家带来的测评是【内向者优势分析手册】，通过这个测试，你能了解到：
你是内向型、外向型、还是更灵活的中间型？
如何更深入地理解「你的内外向性格」这件事？
内向型的你，怎样发挥自己独特的性格优势？
“你可以内向，可以幼稚，可以女汉子，可以玛丽苏，可以洒脱，可以浪漫，你的存在本身就是一件很美好的事。 ” ——《我与世界只差一个你》
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